Why do I do what I do?

Have you ever asked yourself that question?

We are all shaped by our pasts and the events that occurred in them. We form our map of the world based on these events and so create rules and behaviours which have served  either to keep us safe or to give us what we needed  in life at the time.

Many of these ‘rules’ were probably formed when we were quite young and could in fact now be outdated.  I’m sure like me you’ve come across adults who  become irrationally annoyed, or those who always expect to get their own way and can get quite ‘stroppy’ when they don’t.  People who burst into tears over quite small disagreements……  The list is endless!

The problem comes when you continue to run them today when they are no longer appropriate or, perhaps, needed.  Why?  Because you don’t know any other way.  They could now be conflicting with what you now want in life.

If you find you’re not getting what you truly want in life for reasons you don’t understand then get in touch today and start finding out why.

Find out how by understanding you better.  Learn to build your confidence in being you, and so give yourself the future you desire.