What does success look like for you?

For this week's post I want to focus on what success means to you. You see it can mean different things to different people.  For some it's all about being the best.  Whatever that means!  And by the way 'best' will mean different things to different people. To others it means feeling financially secure. Again financially secure to one person might mean having absolutely no debt while to another it might mean manageable debt.  To a third it might mean, no debt of any sort and having a … [Read more...]

But are you restricting your chances of success?

A couple of weeks ago I wrote about how to use language to help you succeed.  Today I want you take that one step further by asking you "But are you restricting your chances of success?" By the end of this post I hope you will have more insight into what I mean. Time and time again I see clients in my sessions who are restricting their chances of success by the phrases they use and the patterns they feed themselves. They may be about to give themselves a positive outcome, however, they … [Read more...]

Are You Creating A Great Future?

My Question to you this morning is "Are you creating a great future for you and your partner"? Or alternatively are you actually muddling along and hoping that somewhere 'down the line' life will improve. I talk a great deal here about focus.  The reason is focus is so important to how we live our lives.  Focus and how we focus is actually key.  Not only key to the type of future we give ourselves but key to how we get there. Let me give you an example.  If someone is poor and doesn't … [Read more...]

Are you the you, you want to be?

More to the point if you were your partner would you want to live with you? So many couples who come to my sessions are living a life which is not going to give them a successful relationship.  Many blame each other for a myriad of behaviours and problems that have - in their words - destroyed the connection they once had. Now they feel that the relationship has probably died and the only option is to move on and start again.  But they're not certain if that solution is the right … [Read more...]

Ladies – your vulnerability is your key to success

Many women see vulnerability as weak and unsuccessful.  Especially in these days of equal jobs when women are striving for recognition in the work place - which is rightly theirs.  But this can take over in all aspects of their lives as they become a force to be reckoned with at home as well. How many men can be heard saying "As long as I do as she says everything is fine".  Is this really how you wish to be seen by the person you love and adore?  Maybe it is - in which case that's fine if … [Read more...]