Dead End to New World

I have recently had the privilege to work with a client who came to me for coaching, with her specific goal to get her "Mojo" back.  She discovered her Dead End was not true and there was a New World waiting for her. Over a period of eleven sessions she has transformed.  Her dedication to the process and her determination, got her the results she desired. These are her words:   None of us knows what is going to happen in the future – we sail along each day often with the drudge of … [Read more...]

From tailspin to exciting future

I had the privilege of working with Mark over the last 3 months. Mark had become someone that he didn't particularly like in his attempts to rescue his marriage.  As a result his marriage had failed.  In the time he spent with me Mark has transformed his life and is now living his life as he should.  He has given himself challenges and has already succeeded in several. He has been kind enough to let me know about his experience and share it with you: I was in a very dark place when I found  … [Read more...]

The festive season can be stressful

Some of you, I am sure, will be breathing a sigh of relief that the festive season is over, especially if your relationship is going through a bad patch or you are in the midst of wondering if you should really be together.  The stress is over. January has a reputation for being the month when more marriages break up than in any other month.   Often couples hang on until after the festive break, either for the sake of a partner they didn't want to hurt at this time, or for the sake of the … [Read more...]

Are you riding a roller-coaster of emotions?

This can be hard when you’re in the middle of a sudden relationship collapse You’re feeling fine and are enjoying life and then suddenly, for what appears to be no apparent reason, you can find yourself descending into a state of gloom, despondency, apathy or despair. In fact it seems this roller-coaster of emotions can attack without warning.  But something will have triggered this.  It could be anything.  A phrase or word someone has used.  A memory triggered by seeing or hearing or even … [Read more...]

Are you in the middle of a relationship crisis?

That horrendous moment when your partner announces they're leaving. That they no longer want to be with you. To be pitchforked into this situation is horrible.  Your world turns upside down and the future looks bleak at best. Reactions at this stage vary enormously. They vary because everyone is different. For those where this has come as a total shock then it can feel like you've been in a car crash but with no visible signs of damage. Panic can set in and a surreal feeling of "This … [Read more...]