Google+

Are you overprotecting your partner?

Overprotecting your partner is one of the patterns of behaviour that help destroy a relationship. Many couples who come to me for help discover they have created this dynamic of overprotection for each other. Protection for each other is, of course, a good thing.  But when it becomes intrusive or overprotecting then problems can arise. Some overprotecting examples Women can become over-protectors.  When a woman does this it can feel normal and the right thing to do. However, ladies, by … [Read more...]

From disconnection to reconnection

Couples can easily get lost in their relationship.  If you do not feel valued within it then you will feel disconnected from it.  We all need to feel connected. When you feel your relationship is not working you will look to meet that connection elsewhere.  This is what happened to this couple.  In their case in the form of an affair. Affairs rarely solve the issues.  However by learning why the affair happened this couple turned their relationship around and learned how not only to reconnect … [Read more...]

Are your behaviours designed to attract your partner?

My question to you today is are you creating behaviours within you which will attract your partner? You see when you first meet you are!  In the beginning, you are in 'marketing mode'.  You want your partner to be attracted to you and so you create behaviours which will attract. You fall in love and believe that now nothing can possibly go wrong.  Well, actually you are wrong. Life can get in the way and behaviours can easily change What do I mean by life? Jobs Hobbies … [Read more...]

Is your blueprint for life giving you what you want?

Most of us will have created our vision of how life should be.  However, problems arise when life isn't the way we believe it should be.  When it doesn't match our vision; a vision created, in some cases, many years before.  Call this a blueprint if you like. When this happens you have several choices: Fight for your Blueprint You can fight to change reality to match your vision.    If your partner is not behaving in the ways you believe they should then one way to get your blueprint vision … [Read more...]

Our relationship is now the best it’s ever been

These two lovely young people came to me in March of this year, seeking help to resolve issues in their marriage and, for at least one of them, believing nothing could be done to save their relationship. These are their words sent to me this week. Linden helped us save our marriage and make our relationship the best it's ever been. If you are reading this testimonial, you are likely in a similar place that my wife and I found ourselves in, March 2019. You are probably looking for hope … [Read more...]