One of the most important things to give your partner

Today I'm going to share with you one of the most important things you can give your partner - All The Time And no it's not excitement or sexiness or great sex It's kindness So often couples fail to give unfailing kindness to their partner. I can't stress enough the importance of giving this all the time.  It's fairly easy to give kindness at the start of a relationship or whilst all is going well.  But are you giving kindness when times are tough or when you're feeling hurt. Love … [Read more...]

What is Missing?

If you're focusing on what's missing in your marriage then you'll find masses of examples of the problems you perceive you have.  My guess is that many of these issues will revolve around you. What you want.  What you need.  What you dislike.  How you feel misunderstood, and a lot of other things as well. If this is you and you're putting all your time and energy into you, then guess what, life isn't going to improve.  Have you taken a moment to stop and wonder how your partner is feeling … [Read more...]

This couple have found out for themselves…..

I came across this blog post this morning.  I do not know the couple involved but I do know they have the foundation for success:..... Marriage isn't for you Having been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me. Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading. I met my wife in high school when we were 15 years old. We were friends for ten years until…until we decided no longer wanted to be just friends. :) I strongly recommend … [Read more...]

She had almost given up hope

I have recently had the privilege of working with a client over the space of  just over one week. She sent me this email today which she has given permission to be published: Dear Linden When I first met you I instantly liked and trusted you which is something that I don’t ordinarily feel about people. Then we got talking and I liked and trusted you even more. We would chat and you really got me, you got that I wasn’t happy in my relationship or happy in general. You then started to … [Read more...]

How do you give love?

An interesting question! But a very important question which I would like you to think about today. Do you give love only with the expectation of getting something back? Do you give love only when you've already been given love? Do you give love without expectation of anything in return? Do you give your love unconditionally? The answer you get is important and will have a significant effect on your relationship. Why? Well, if an individual only gives love when they want … [Read more...]