Couples can inadvertently set themselves up to fail

Many couples arriving for their first session with me have developed a relationship together which, without them realising it, has set them up to fail. Each has collected information over the years on past actions by their partner which has given them lots of examples of failure. Now their focus is on failure. By focusing on failure they are ignoring any opportunities for success. Why want to fail? It is important to understand what's going on for each individual. Why should failure take … [Read more...]