Are you withholding the one thing you want?

When a couple is in crisis it is highly likely that one or both of them will have created behaviours to protect themselves from emotional pain. For couples who come to see me my role is to help them see what they are doing to themselves, to each other, and so to their relationship. So my question to you today is "Are you withholding the one thing you want?" For instance if Kindness is important to you but you are now not being kind to your partner then you are breaking your belief in … [Read more...]