When is it safe to change?

Doing or behaving differently to the way you have before can seem impossible.  Right!  So when is it safe to change? Or more importantly when will you feel safe to change?  Couples can so easily get stuck in patterns of behaviour that actually don't work.  They don't meet each other's needs and do not create any harmony.  None of those wonderful feelings you both had when you first met. Each individual hangs on to their way of behaving, doing  or wanting something - usually because it's … [Read more...]