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Create your driver to change

When I first meet a couple in trouble, in their first session with me, I am frequently told by one or both that "It's all the his/her fault" "I would never behave the way he/she has" "I would never do what he/she did" "He/she is never going to change so what's the point" "It's their way or no … [Read more...]

We all want an extraordinary relationship

When couples come to see me they have lost the ability to create an extraordinary relationship.  The one they had when they first met. They have lost  that amazing connection? Long-lasting, loving and passionate relationships don't just happen.  They need a determination to work together to keep … [Read more...]

When did you last flirt with your partner?

Yes I do mean it.  When did you last flirt with your partner? You see when we meet someone we are attracted to we go out and out to encourage them.  This will include flirting! Couples in crisis have often not only forgotten what attracted them to their partner in the first place but, in many … [Read more...]

Notice something new about your partner

Today I want you to notice something new about your partner.  Something you LOVE Why? Well it is so easy to become lazy about who we are with. To fail to notice the special things in life. Notice something new about your partner I'd like you to look at your partner and remind yourself what … [Read more...]

An emotional pattern created years ago may be influencing your relationship

We are all influenced by how we are brought up and how we decide to deal with what goes on around us.  We create emotional patterns to keep ourselves safe. Let me give you an example A child growing up without love will often struggle to find out how to love and to be loved.  This child will … [Read more...]