Partners who add value benefit each other

So what do I mean when I say you need to add value to each other By adding to your partner's experience of life and helping them achieve their goals then you bring something to your relationship rather than take. So many couples I see have failed to create long-term goals for themselves as … [Read more...]

Relationship Tip: Give What They Need

Many couples I see tell me they are unable to give love to each other. However they still have feelings for each other.  They've developed patterns of behaviour which neither likes. The couple have created a stalemate. Neither is prepared to give until they see some effort by their partner.  But … [Read more...]

A Challenge for the New Year!

Now that the New Year is well and truly under-way I thought I would set a challenge for all those who are experiencing problems in their relationship. You see 'life' can get in the way.  Work, children, hobbies; all have an effect on how we behave and these behaviours can take over in our lives … [Read more...]

Do you have the Courage to Question your belief about your Relationship?

It takes a great deal of courage to question your belief when you are in a relationship or marriage that is not working.  Your belief that the relationship is over and not able to be saved can drive you to leave.  But if you leave without questioning this belief then how can you know if you are … [Read more...]

Nature designed us to be different

Clearly, biologically we know that nature designed us to be different! This is not the subject of this post. Nature and evolution has also designed our needs to be different too. Today society is teaching us that our needs are the same. This is not true. This failure to understand this has led … [Read more...]