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Focus on your partner to get what you want

If you focus solely on what you want out of your relationship and, more to the point, what you are not getting, then there's a high probability that your relationship will suffer. A person in this place can fall into the trap of 'hunting for negatives'. What do I mean by that? Are you watching … [Read more...]

Don’t run until you have all the facts

When someone sees their future as unhappy or hopeless then the solution to end their relationship may feel like the only option. However life-altering decisions made or taken when a person is suffering can frequently be bad. Maybe not right away.  Maybe not in a matter of weeks or months  but so … [Read more...]

What makes a relationship passionate?

For a relationship to be passionate a couple needs to understand their differences.  A relationship works based on things you have in common.  Passion comes from your differences. So what do I mean by that? Men and women run a different model of the world.  They communicate differently and … [Read more...]

How do you deal with the aftermath of a difference of opinion

How you deal with the aftermath of a difference of opinion - or argument  - will have a major effect on the state of your relationship. If arguments never seem to get anywhere or become more and more frequent then you need to find out why.  Solving your issues may seem impossible.  They probably … [Read more...]

For Couples in Crisis: Have you lost sight of the Positives

When a relationship is in crisis couples can easily lose sight of any positives.  The issue here is one of focus.  When in crisis it is all too easy only to focus on the negatives. The problem is if you focus on the negatives - be that behaviours, problems, issues or emotions - that is what you … [Read more...]