Commitment is key

One of the hardest issues couples face when their relationship is in crisis is creating the commitment to repair it. If one of you is already looking for an exit then this commitment feels almost impossible to give.  You've already convinced yourself that the future with your partner is not going … [Read more...]

Protecting yourself may not be the answer

First of all let me be clear if you are in a long-term physically violent relationship - this does NOT apply to you.  If this is you then - protect yourself and get out fast. Now that is clear what do I mean by Protecting yourself and why may it not be the answer. When a relationship has … [Read more...]

Does Relationship Coaching Work?

I frequently get asked "Does Relationship Coaching Work?" This is a valid question for many couples seeking my help.  I wrote on this topic a few years ago and believe it is so important that I have repeated it for you today. The short answer to the question is Yes.  But that does not mean all … [Read more...]

Keys for Success

Many couples who attend my sessions do not know how to be successful in their relationship.  They don't know the keys for success. My question to you today is do you know how to make your partner happy? Key for success No 1 Judge.  The answer here is simple.  Don't.  In a moment of conflict, … [Read more...]

Who is most important in your relationship?

Understanding who is most important in your relationship is key to a successful one.  I know this seems obvious but believe me so many couples lose sight of this. When you both met you were each focused on making each other happy.  You listened, you learnt and you acted in their best interests to … [Read more...]