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The reach doesn’t have to outstretch your grasp

Many couples I see in my sessions do not know how to reach each other and create that connection where both feel safe and secure emotionally. From the men I frequently pick up they feel their woman is beyond their grasp. They have no idea how to respond to what seems to them to be … [Read more...]

Solve your Marriage Crisis With These Steps

Take these steps to invest in your Marriage and resolve your Marriage Crisis Just to be clear before I get into this post I refer throughout to marriage crisis.  I do this to avoid making each statement too long-winded or confusing.  These steps equally apply to anyone in a relationship crisis … [Read more...]

Couples who keep their relationship alive do this

Couples who keep their relationship alive long-term have discovered some essential behaviours which ensure they use constantly. This week I have decided to share a few of them so you too can start improving your relationship. When an emotionally negative issue arises rather than assume they … [Read more...]

Be the one to take action

Many of the people who come to me for help believe that they are doing 'everything right' and it's their partner who has to change.  I am even told - rather too frequently - that they are prepared to change and take action,  but only if their partner changes first! So now they have put a … [Read more...]

Commitment is key

One of the hardest issues couples face when their relationship is in crisis is creating the commitment to repair it. If one of you is already looking for an exit then this commitment feels almost impossible to give.  You've already convinced yourself that the future with your partner is not going … [Read more...]