She had become a nagger

A couple came to see me recently at breaking point.  She had become a nagger - and she knew she had. He had taken to either hiding in his study or going out with friends to avoid the onslaught.  Communication was becoming hostile.  Intimacy was all but dead. What neither understood was why they were now behaving in ways which both of them hated. She had a long list of his failings - which he could recite.  The problem he found was the nagging didn't stop when he had tried to please her and … [Read more...]