Have you both taken responsibility for how you communicate?

Time and time again I am told by couples who come to me for help that they don't talk any more, and by that they actually mean they may talk but they are not reaching each other - they don't communicate.  One or both of them tells me they feel at a loss on how to be understood.  Some tell me they don't even feel heard by their partner. Communication is a complex field This may come as a big surprise to you.  Communication can be a minefield of misunderstanding.  Why? Well to start with men … [Read more...]