Affairs don’t just happen for no reason

An affair doesn't just happen.  An affair happens for a reason. By the way - when things are going wrong an affair is not the answer to solving the problems. So why do affairs happen?  There are masses of reasons.  But deep down it's highly likely that the person's needs are not being met in a way that they need them to be met. The sex may still be great - or not.  But if day-to-day life with their partner is not giving them what they need then an affair becomes a possibility. Suddenly … [Read more...]

Trust is key to all great relationships

Without trust any relationship will flounder.  Be it at work, in a social context or, more importantly, the most valued relationship you'll ever have - your marriage. Trust is key At work you trust your business colleagues to work with you as a team.  To strive together to the common goal - be that sales, developing a new product, getting lunch out on time, whatever.  Liking them is not required.  You're not involved with them on an emotional level.  So you can trust people you don't … [Read more...]