Relationship Tip: Give What They Need

Many couples I see tell me they are unable to give love to each other. However they still have feelings for each other.  They've developed patterns of behaviour which neither likes. The couple have created a stalemate. Neither is prepared to give until they see some effort by their partner.  But … [Read more...]

The reach doesn’t have to outstretch your grasp

Many couples I see in my sessions do not know how to reach each other and create that connection where both feel safe and secure emotionally. From the men I frequently pick up they feel their woman is beyond their grasp. They have no idea how to respond to what seems to them to be … [Read more...]

Do you know how to fight for your relationship

Many couples fight. Couples can fight over a long period of time.  Months to years.  They fight but they don't resolve.  It hurts and is very painful. Many do not know how to fight for their relationship because the pain of where they are is so great it doesn't seem possible to do. The arguments … [Read more...]

Solve your Marriage Crisis With These Stages

The Emotional Stages you need to Experience as you invest in your Marriage and resolve your Marriage Crisis Just to be clear before I get into this post I refer throughout to marriage crisis.  I do this to avoid making each statement too long-winded or confusing.  These stages equally apply to … [Read more...]

Do you grow from conflict?

Conflict - that scary word for some signals failure Many of the couples who I see in my sessions are dealing with conflict on a daily basis.  Arguments that go round and round in circles and leave both of them exhausted, bewildered and hurt. So how do you benefit or grow from conflict?  Is it … [Read more...]