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Dealing with your own inner conflict

If you don't feel good about what you're doing or the way you're doing it then the chances are you're in conflict with yourself. Blaming those around you won't actually solve the problem.  You see if you do you've abdicated your responsibility for the situation.  I know that sounds tough, but it … [Read more...]

Give your marriage a present and treat it to a Marriage MOT

Further to the article in yesterday's Sunday Telegraph I repost the article I wrote a few years ago on this site: Marriage MOT We all know that it is a good idea to have our health checked every couple of years or so.  We also care for our teeth and our eyesight with regular checks, even our cars … [Read more...]

Who Taught you about Relationships?

We learn from those around us and those trained to teach us.  From our teachers in our early years we learnt how to read, write, and add up etc We also learnt from others around us.  Our parents.  The parents of our friends.  Our friends. We continue to learn every day.  Be it when we take up … [Read more...]

Take Action before it’s too late

Many couples leave taking action until it's too late. By that I mean those who leave the decision to the last moment when life has become almost intolerable and communication has all but collapsed.  They have explored most other avenues and the pain of where they are is so great that help becomes … [Read more...]

Many couples don’t know how to hear each other

Many couples I see have totally misunderstood their partner's words and actions and when they do attempt to sit down and talk it through exacerbate the problems by failing to hear what their partner is actually saying.  Why? Men and women communicate in different ways.  You could almost say they … [Read more...]