A Challenge for the New Year!

Now that the New Year is well and truly under-way I thought I would set a challenge for all those who are experiencing problems in their relationship. You see 'life' can get in the way.  Work, children, hobbies; all have an effect on how we behave and these behaviours can take over in our lives … [Read more...]

Men and Women Communicate Differently

Men and women communicate differently.  Nature and evolution designed us to do so. However recently society has dictated that we shouldn't have to! In the world of work, hobbies, etc there are not many problems.  Humans are communicators and we've learnt to communicate well.  As men and women we … [Read more...]

Is the Sexual Connection in your Relationship Right For You Both?

Many couples I see in my sessions have lost sexual connection.  Some tell me they have had no sexual connection or intimacy for years. They may have convinced themselves that sex and passion dies over time and so they shouldn't expect it to last.  If that works for both of you then that's fine.  … [Read more...]

Do you have the Courage to Question your belief about your Relationship?

It takes a great deal of courage to question your belief when you are in a relationship or marriage that is not working.  Your belief that the relationship is over and not able to be saved can drive you to leave.  But if you leave without questioning this belief then how can you know if you are … [Read more...]

Nature designed us to be different

Clearly, biologically we know that nature designed us to be different! This is not the subject of this post. Nature and evolution has also designed our needs to be different too. Today society is teaching us that our needs are the same. This is not true. This failure to understand this has led … [Read more...]