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An emotional pattern created years ago may be influencing your relationship

We are all influenced by how we are brought up and how we decide to deal with what goes on around us.  We create emotional patterns to keep ourselves safe. Let me give you an example A child growing up without love will often struggle to find out how to love and to be loved.  This child will … [Read more...]

Focus on your partner to get what you want

If you focus solely on what you want out of your relationship and, more to the point, what you are not getting, then there's a high probability that your relationship will suffer. A person in this place can fall into the trap of 'hunting for negatives'. What do I mean by that? Are you watching … [Read more...]

Nurture your Relationship to meet its needs

Life has to be nurtured to survive. So does your relationship.  In this day and age it is so easy to forget that. Your relationship has needs too and must be nurtured The problem is so many people today believe that good relationships should stay good without any further investment in them.  You … [Read more...]

Don’t run until you have all the facts

When someone sees their future as unhappy or hopeless then the solution to end their relationship may feel like the only option. However life-altering decisions made or taken when a person is suffering can frequently be bad. Maybe not right away.  Maybe not in a matter of weeks or months  but so … [Read more...]

Dealing with your own inner conflict

If you don't feel good about what you're doing or the way you're doing it then the chances are you're in conflict with yourself. Blaming those around you won't actually solve the problem.  You see if you do you've abdicated your responsibility for the situation.  I know that sounds tough, but it … [Read more...]