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Who Taught you about Relationships?

We learn from those around us and those trained to teach us.  From our teachers in our early years we learnt how to read, write, and add up etc We also learnt from others around us.  Our parents.  The parents of our friends.  Our friends. We continue to learn every day.  Be it when we take up … [Read more...]

Build a better story

Many couples I see in my sessions have created stories for themselves about each other which frequently are not true.  One, or both of them have decided what the other's motives are.  What they are thinking. What they are feeling. So how do you know if your story is true?  Unless you are living … [Read more...]

Take Action before it’s too late

Many couples leave taking action until it's too late. By that I mean those who leave the decision to the last moment when life has become almost intolerable and communication has all but collapsed.  They have explored most other avenues and the pain of where they are is so great that help becomes … [Read more...]

Many couples don’t know how to hear each other

Many couples I see have totally misunderstood their partner's words and actions and when they do attempt to sit down and talk it through exacerbate the problems by failing to hear what their partner is actually saying.  Why? Men and women communicate in different ways.  You could almost say they … [Read more...]

Love Dies as Self-Protection Rises

When someone protects themselves in their relationship they are unable fully to experience feelings of love and connection with their partner. The more they protect themselves the less love they will feel. Love Dies as Self-Protection Rises Couples who come to my sessions learn what they are … [Read more...]