Do you seek justice rather than accept love?

Today I'm posing the question "Do you seek justice rather than accept love?" This may seem an odd question to some reading this but there is a good reason I'm asking you. So often in life we seek justice and by that I don't mean revenge.   Yes if we've been wronged this is understandable and … [Read more...]

Love is not about Control

Many couples who come to see me looking for answers to their relationship problems complain that one of them has assumed control.  Again and again I hear one say that they feel controlled by the other. This applies to both men and women - so it is by no means the norm these days to hear the woman … [Read more...]

When arguments escalate

When arguments escalate and take over your relationship one or both of you may decide the only option is to 'throw in the towel' and leave.  This in fact may be the right answer - you may not be meant for each other in the long term.  But how can you be sure? You see men and women work … [Read more...]

Do you love you?

By asking you the question "do you love you?" Some of you will now be visualising the woman or man who is completely self-absorbed and pleased with themselves and doesn't give any thought to others around them.  This is not what I mean by loving yourself. Some people find it easy to love … [Read more...]

One of the most important things to give your partner

Today I'm going to share with you one of the most important things you can give your partner - All The Time And no it's not excitement or sexiness or great sex It's kindness So often couples fail to give unfailing kindness to their partner. I can't stress enough the importance of giving … [Read more...]