Nature designed us to be different

Clearly, biologically we know that nature designed us to be different! This is not the subject of this post. Nature and evolution has also designed our needs to be different too. Today society is teaching us that our needs are the same. This is not true. This failure to understand this has led … [Read more...]

Divorce rates are rising. Why?

Statistics show that couples are divorcing in record numbers. Many factors are causing this, amongst them are: Longer life expectancy Divorce is no longer a stigma The 'throw-away' culture means people believe they should no longer have to solve issues.  If it's 'broken' then ditch it … [Read more...]

Now you’ve split – Are you asking yourself great questions?

This can be very difficult in the middle of a marriage break up. Many people find themselves in such a place of pain they don't know which way to turn or how to get out of the bleak hole they feel they are in. Part of the solution is to ask yourself great questions.  Now what do I mean by … [Read more...]

Breakups happen for a reason

Remember all relationship breakups happen for a reason.  I understand that this is a hard thing to face and one that can take time to come to terms with. What happened to all that love and passion you had when you were first together? How come it's all vanished? What did we do or not do … [Read more...]

Divorce – how is it affecting you?

Divorce or suddenly finding yourself alone, is incredibly hard.  Especially if you didn't see the split coming. For each individual it's different. Everyone is unique so how you react will be unique to you.  Your reactions can take you by surprise as the emotional roller-coaster kicks … [Read more...]