Differences are key

One of the problems I hear time and time again in my sessions are complaints that "my partner doesn't see life the same way as I do".  They don't behave in situations as you would do.  So clearly he or she is not compatible with me. Guess what.  Why should they see life the way you do.  They … [Read more...]

Valuing your differences is key to relationship success

Valuing your differences is so important in a relationship. When you first met you loved the special characteristics in each other.  However over time it is easy to lose sight of these special qualities and either become irritated, or resentful, that they are not like you  - or you attempt to … [Read more...]

Women – Understand your man!

This is one for the women who visit this site.  Though men it won't hurt for you to read it too! Women - do you understand your man and how his mind works? Men don't think the way we do!  OK I know you know that.  But did you know they are not supposed to? The male of the species which is … [Read more...]

Value the difference

How often have you wished that everyone saw the world the way you see it? It's all perfectly clear to you - what's right and what's wrong!   The world through your eyes seems perfectly logical and sensible to you. So when someone close suddenly comes up with a different way of seeing what's … [Read more...]