Do you grow from conflict?

Conflict - that scary word for some signals failure Many of the couples who I see in my sessions are dealing with conflict on a daily basis.  Arguments that go round and round in circles and leave both of them exhausted, bewildered and hurt. So how do you benefit or grow from conflict?  Is it really possible. The answer to this is Yes it is possible.  But only if you understand the root cause of the issue rather than the usual assumption that the subject of the argument is the … [Read more...]

But are you restricting your chances of success?

A couple of weeks ago I wrote about how to use language to help you succeed.  Today I want you take that one step further by asking you "But are you restricting your chances of success?" By the end of this post I hope you will have more insight into what I mean. Time and time again I see clients in my sessions who are restricting their chances of success by the phrases they use and the patterns they feed themselves. They may be about to give themselves a positive outcome, however, they … [Read more...]