Is the Sexual Connection in your Relationship Right For You Both?

Many couples I see in my sessions have lost sexual connection.  Some tell me they have had no sexual connection or intimacy for years. They may have convinced themselves that sex and passion dies over time and so they shouldn't expect it to last.  If that works for both of you then that's fine.  … [Read more...]

Do you have the Courage to Question your belief about your Relationship?

It takes a great deal of courage to question your belief when you are in a relationship or marriage that is not working.  Your belief that the relationship is over and not able to be saved can drive you to leave.  But if you leave without questioning this belief then how can you know if you are … [Read more...]

Nature designed us to be different

Clearly, biologically we know that nature designed us to be different! This is not the subject of this post. Nature and evolution has also designed our needs to be different too. Today society is teaching us that our needs are the same. This is not true. This failure to understand this has led … [Read more...]

Free yourself to become the best version of you

If you are unable to be the best version of you in your relationship then your relationship will suffer. Finding out what matters to you is vital if your relationship is failing.  So often couples create behaviours which are counter to what they believe. They then use these behaviours to fix … [Read more...]

Men – do you understand your woman?

Men and women communicate differently.  So my question today is to the men reading this post is "Do you understand your woman?" The response to this will be varied!  Of course it will be! Some will be rolling their eyes and saying "If only".  Some will believe they do but if they are reading … [Read more...]