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Many couples don’t know how to hear each other

Many couples I see have totally misunderstood their partner's words and actions and when they do attempt to sit down and talk it through exacerbate the problems by failing to hear what their partner is actually saying.  Why? Men and women communicate in different ways.  You could almost say they … [Read more...]

Love Dies as Self-Protection Rises

When someone protects themselves in their relationship they are unable fully to experience feelings of love and connection with their partner. The more they protect themselves the less love they will feel. Love Dies as Self-Protection Rises Couples who come to my sessions learn what they are … [Read more...]

Have you learnt what to give

Time and again I see couples in crisis who haven't learnt how to give what each other needs. Each believes they are a giver.  And by and large they are.  Many give with love and all it seems to have do is destroy their bond and their relationship. So why is the marriage failing.  Why are each … [Read more...]

How do you deal with the aftermath of a difference of opinion

How you deal with the aftermath of a difference of opinion - or argument  - will have a major effect on the state of your relationship. If arguments never seem to get anywhere or become more and more frequent then you need to find out why.  Solving your issues may seem impossible.  They probably … [Read more...]

A new relationship 20 years in

I recently worked with this couple over a period of a few months.  Their open-minded desire to reach the truth has given them a future neither thought possible. These following words have been written by Nic: Nic and Louise - a new relationship 20 years in After 20 years together, running a … [Read more...]