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Things ain’t what they used to be…

When you look back at the start of your relationship you will probably remember how wonderful you felt and how amazing your partner was.  Nothing could possibly go wrong.  And yet maybe for some of you reading this post the statement that comes to mind is Things ain't what they used to be Where … [Read more...]

What do you value in your life?

Today I want you to think about what you value in life.  By value I want you to think about emotional needs. You see there's a massive difference between a person who, say,  values Security as their number one value and a person who values Adventure as their number one value. For example, a … [Read more...]

Are you the you, you want to be?

More to the point if you were your partner would you want to live with you? So many couples who come to my sessions are living a life which is not going to give them a successful relationship.  Many blame each other for a myriad of behaviours and problems that have - in their words - destroyed … [Read more...]

Do you love you?

By asking you the question "do you love you?" Some of you will now be visualising the woman or man who is completely self-absorbed and pleased with themselves and doesn't give any thought to others around them.  This is not what I mean by loving yourself. Some people find it easy to love … [Read more...]

Does your belief in how life should be equal how life actually is?

We all have beliefs on how each part of our life should be.  Career, family, lifestyle, fitness, how we look, relationship, finances........... Most of us will have created these beliefs or blueprints as we grew up. We created a vision, a map of the world, of how we wanted and desired our world … [Read more...]