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Things ain’t what they used to be…

When you look back at the start of your relationship you will probably remember how wonderful you felt and how amazing your partner was.  Nothing could possibly go wrong.  And yet maybe for some of you reading this post the statement that comes to mind is Things ain't what they used to be Where … [Read more...]

Do you Act or React

Do you want to know why your relationship is suffering?  Do you want to know why you feel bad?  Would you like to know what's happened to create these feelings? The question is do you act or react. There is a massive chasm between these two actions. As individuals we all have needs which need … [Read more...]

Is your Past Affecting Your Now?

Today I want to talk to you about your past and ask you the important question "Is your Past affecting your Now?". Many couples I see are struggling to be connected at a deeper level because one of them is attempting to control the environment to such an extent that the other feels stifled and … [Read more...]

We all have habits of behaviour – are yours creating a good dynamic?

Every adult will have habits of behaviour which they have developed over the years by the experiences life has given them through their childhood to where they are now. Habits which have been created to protect them or give them the outcome they believe is best for them in the past.  The problem … [Read more...]

Are you the you, you want to be?

More to the point if you were your partner would you want to live with you? So many couples who come to my sessions are living a life which is not going to give them a successful relationship.  Many blame each other for a myriad of behaviours and problems that have - in their words - destroyed … [Read more...]