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Dead End to New World

I have recently had the privilege to work with a client who came to me for coaching, with her specific goal to get her “Mojo” back.  She discovered her Dead End was not true and there was a New World waiting for her. Over a period of eleven sessions she has transformed.  Her dedication to the process and her determination, got her the results she desired.

These are her words:

 

None of us knows what is going to happen in the future – we sail along each day often with the drudge of the weekday business and house/family chores. Forgetting to work on our Partner to continue to nurture our trusted DIAMOND.  We forget the reason why we got together and fell in love in the first place.

Unexpected tragedies and losses or disabilities occur – and can rip our hearts inside out.  It hits us like a strike of lightening.  The cause and affect is un-measurable upon the people directly affected.

Years of happy marriage, we enjoyed so many wonderful experiences together. We loved new experiences with ‘open hearts’.  Life appeared full.  Tragic events occurred in a way of a ‘cyclone’ one after another.

We started out supporting each other, then lost sight to support each other, as after time the ensuing dialogue continued.  Sub-conscious resentments occurred – due to our own ‘blinkers’.

I lost sight of who I was.  I was not in a good ‘brain space’ – I didn’t love me anymore. January 2016 I sat at my computer and wrote a list of my personal goals to try and get myself  ‘going’.  It was too late for my Partner. He already made his mind up to leave.

January – My main goal was to ‘get the real me back on track’.  The question was ‘HOW’?  I didn’t know ‘HOW’!  I thought I was intelligent enough to work on the resolutions. No I was wrong, my brain was in a spin.

I researched and researched tirelessly to locate a Counsellor who has multiple professional skill-sets – v – less qualified part–timers.

BINGO! I find LINDEN PORTER’S website – she is not far for me to visit!

I met Linden in May 2016 , her meeting space is in a beautiful location.

Blown away on day 1.  Linden’s professional expertise is ‘OUTSTANDING’.   When I left Linden that first time. I felt as though ‘she gets me’.

Linden booked a weekly 2 hour meeting thereafter for 3 weeks. I could choose to cancel if I did not feel our meetings were not progressive.   In fact, this project has been totally LIFE CHANGING for ‘me’, in the most POSITIVE direction…

Questions:- How did you do this?

Me:  I wanted my MOJO BACK  – there is a long life ahead of me, I wish to look forward to – v- locked in limbo and feeling unhappy. I took control of ‘my’ steering wheel with both hands strongly fixed..   Yes I was in trepidation!

However, I needed to step in to the unknown, the deep dark pond I was facing to ‘find me’, I needed to touch unknown territory,  dip my fingers  into the pond, and gently reach further down.

The £ cost of regaining my Life back via Linden’s professional expertise – and methodology looking forward rather than back is far more important than anything material. I learned to Love Myself again (this was lost for years).

Until we learn to love ourselves again authentically. Then and only then, can we engage with learning to love someone else.  This passage takes patience.  It is not a quick fix. Persevere and you will reap magnificent rewards. Believe me!

What was the outcome?

 August 2016 – OUTSTANDING/ ECSTATIC :-  down  to me working  really hard and focussed on Linden’s homework  and taking my Counselling 150% seriously.  This requires patience and time alone.

I took time to deeply introspect over the ensuing weeks. Changing my sub-conscious internally held ‘wrong’ beliefs’  – down to Linden’s guidance.

I know I am on exactly the right path going forward with wonderful visions and utterly surprising new ‘open’ communications I have not felt in a very long time because, I was ‘closed’ to people, now my free-flowing persona is attracting people so unexpectedly.    I am now like a BUTTERFLY, flitting from one to another  ‘what takes my fancy’, at my own pace. This is freedom and totally liberating.

My internal Spirit is eternally lifted – I get up in the morning early with a skip in my step  –  ‘EYES WIDE OPEN AND A FULL WIDE SPECTRUM’.

Go to Linden – with ‘OPEN HEART & MIND’  – you will be rewarded far and beyond your expectations.  This is meant from the bottom of my heart to anyone going through inner turmoil of any kind.

LINDEN – IS TRULY AMAZING

PS:- NO I DID NOT GET A BACK HANDER! – I AM BEING TRULY HONEST AND OPEN – THAT IS ALL – TO HELP OTHER PEOPLE KNOW THAT LINDEN HAS THE RIGHT PROFESSIONAL EXPERTISE – TRUST IN HER AMAZING SKILLS PLEASE!

Rosina, Buckinghamshire