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Change can appear difficult at times

The one thing that all the couples I see have in common is that they’ve been doing something in past  – either recently – or over several years, which has resulted in their marriage ending up in crisis.

The second thing they all have in common is their desire to find the truth about their relationship and their wish to find if there is a way to rescue them from marital crisis and reconnect so their future together is something they both want.

Discovering what has caused their marital crisis can be enlightening, scary and challenging.  But learning step-by-step how to change the behaviours which caused them to end up in their current pain to a place where happiness becomes a real possibility gives them both growth.  Individually and as a couple.

A relationship which is growing through understanding, communication, teamwork and mutual respect will last.  Any relationship which isn’t growing will, eventually, die, and it’s because the relationship was dying that it ended up in crisis.

Each couple has their own unique issues and challenges – we are all different.  For some the issues can be solved in a matter of hours, for others it will be weeks.  There is no right or wrong here.

For those who come to me with an open mind, willing to give anything a go however that feels they are already giving themselves more choices than they had even the previous day.

Change gives you choice

Choices open up the world to growth.  Staying as you are, fixed in your beliefs (however those were formed in the past) will continue to hold you where you are today.

If you want to learn more on how to give yourself these choices from a position of being true to yourself then do get in touch.

To your future

Linden