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A new relationship 20 years in

I recently worked with this couple over a period of a few months.  Their open-minded desire to reach the truth has given them a future neither thought possible. These following words have been written by Nic: Nic and Louise - a new relationship 20 years in After 20 years together, running a series of house moves and other "projects" to avoid dealing with fundamental issues in our relationship, I felt we had reached the end.  We were constantly miserable and angry.  I introduced increasing … [Read more...]

An affair does not have to signal the end

When someone has an affair the result can be devastating for the other partner.  This couple were in turmoil.  The emotions were raw and their future together looked bleak at best. This is how they now view their relationship and future after working with me over several months.  Their journey to where they are now was tough at times but they worked through their pain and confusion and now have a golden future ahead of them.  They now understand what happened and why.  They are armed with the … [Read more...]

One Session is all it took

One session is all it took to turn a couple around from being on the verge of splitting up for good to creating an exciting future together. This young couple had come to me because both were fed up with the constant repetitive arguments which went nowhere.  Neither understood why. At the end of their two-hour session they had learnt where each of them was going wrong and why they had ended up stuck. They learnt how and why men and women communicate differently.   They learnt how to … [Read more...]

A few months of Discovery

I have recently been working with a couple who had lost their way and couldn't see a future together. They worked hard through their issues and never gave up on each other.  Their tenacity paid off as each discovered they had failed to understand each other in the past and the impact those failures had had on their marriage. The husband kindly sent this to me recently: Their few months of Discovery We both wish to thank you for all the help you have given us.  When we first came to see you … [Read more...]

Dead End to New World

I have recently had the privilege to work with a client who came to me for coaching, with her specific goal to get her "Mojo" back.  She discovered her Dead End was not true and there was a New World waiting for her. Over a period of eleven sessions she has transformed.  Her dedication to the process and her determination, got her the results she desired. These are her words:   None of us knows what is going to happen in the future – we sail along each day often with the drudge of … [Read more...]