Men have needs too

In this day and age of equality it's become all too easy for women to decide we have to be good at everything. We don't need help - we can do it all ourselves. We can manage thank you very much!  We can open doors, carry our parcels, cope with a shopping trolley, 3 children (all screaming) and no … [Read more...]

Relationship Tip: Praise not Appraise

For today's post I want you to consider the following Relationship Tip Do you know how to Praise rather than Appraise? Appraise I am certain we can all connect with a time when we have had to endure the annual Work Appraisal.   Never mind how well we have done, somehow those responsible for us … [Read more...]

How concerned are you about your Relationship?

Relationship Tip Today I want you to ask yourself the question: How concerned am I about my Relationship? To help you answer this question and give you some indicators I am giving you an important Relationship Tip Exercise You'll need a couple of sheets of paper On the first sheet write … [Read more...]

The spark has gone

Many couples, and individuals, who attend my sessions tell me the spark has gone from their relationship.  They also tell me there is no way it's ever going to come back. They still love each other but the passion is dead.  And because the passion is dead and, in their minds, gone for good then … [Read more...]

One reason why couples fail each other

One reason why couples fail each other is they fail to listen to the underlying request when one of them is in emotional pain. The emotional pain may show itself in frustration, anger, irritation and even emotions like disdain and being patronising or condescending.  I've only mentioned a … [Read more...]