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Do you know how to solve your problems?

Today I'm asking those who are suffering from relationship problems "Do you know how to solve them?" You see unless you understand what the problems really are then you can spend a lot of time fruitlessly going round and round trying to resolve the wrong things. If your partner has withdrawn … [Read more...]

Separation wasn’t working

They had separated 10 months earlier as life together had deteriorated to a point where both were very unhappy.  But now almost a year later the husband didn't feel any happier.  In fact he strongly believed their marriage still had a chance.  He wanted to find out where they had gone wrong and … [Read more...]

Can our Broken Marriage be Saved?

I see couples with many different problems in my sessions.  Often they come to me in a last ditch attempt to find out if their broken marriage can be saved.  Frequently they have tried other forms of counselling before giving themselves one last shot. Most have lost sight of who they are and why … [Read more...]

What do you really want more of?

When relationships go wrong it can often be due to both partners failing to give what they want to receive.  I see this frequently with warring couples who have hurt each other so much in the past they have created and are living by some very destructive habits. Then they come to coaching.  … [Read more...]

Not all relationships can be saved

Here I am working as a Relationship and Marriage Coach and I've just announced not all relationships can be saved.  Of course this is true.  Some relationships should not be saved and cannot be saved.  No relationship should be saved just for the sake of saving it. This will not work long-term and … [Read more...]