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Who is most important in your relationship?

Understanding who is most important in your relationship is key to a successful one.  I know this seems obvious but believe me so many couples lose sight of this. When you both met you were each focused on making each other happy.  You listened, you learnt and you acted in their best interests to the best of your ability. Over time other things can easily take up your time and your focus can shift.  Day-by-day you focus on other areas of your life as you believe your relationship is safe … [Read more...]

Which are you doing?

Relationships require positive action to keep them alive and passionate.  The problem most couples with relationship problems have is they don't know  which actions are positive, good ones and which are negative, bad ones. Men and women communicate in different ways and not understanding this and mis-interpreting what they are saying, can lead you into a mine-field of problems. My Question to you in today's post is: Which are you doing? Here are a few actions you may be taking which … [Read more...]

Men have needs too

In this day and age of equality it's become all too easy for women to decide we have to be good at everything. We don't need help - we can do it all ourselves. We can manage thank you very much!  We can open doors, carry our parcels, cope with a shopping trolley, 3 children (all screaming) and no we don't need help! Quite right we can but why would we want to? When a man offers to help, it's just that - he wants to help.  Why?  It makes him feel good, manly and of service. That what … [Read more...]

Successful Couples are doing this…..

The question I often here in my sessions is how come other couples are successful and we aren't? My job in helping couples out of crisis and into being a successful couple is to give them the tools to change their behaviours and reactions to each other - in an environment which is safe for them. So today I'm going to give you a few pointers and hence the heading of today's post Successful Couples are doing this..... They have learnt and have practised being open with each other.  … [Read more...]

You ARE special

Everyone is special in their own unique way. That includes you.  You ARE special. It's so easy to look at others and believe they are more intelligent, prettier, more handsome, funnier, more empathetic.... than you are. However we all have gifts, abilities and strengths -  there will be some thing you are brilliant at which leaves those around you in awe - but to you comes as 2nd nature! It's easy to see it in others isn't it.....  The brilliant business man, the wonderful singer, the … [Read more...]