Successful Couples are doing this…..

The question I often here in my sessions is how come other couples are successful and we aren't? My job in helping couples out of crisis and into being a successful couple is to give them the tools to change their behaviours and reactions to each other - in an environment which is safe for … [Read more...]

You ARE special

Everyone is special in their own unique way. That includes you.  You ARE special. It's so easy to look at others and believe they are more intelligent, prettier, more handsome, funnier, more empathetic.... than you are. However we all have gifts, abilities and strengths -  there will be some … [Read more...]

Build resentments and your relationship will die

When couples finally seek help they have frequently already built a stack of resentments against their partner. They arrive in my sessions with their list of resentments which they have each created for themselves over the months and years. These resentments have taken hold in their … [Read more...]

Are you playing roulette with your relationship?

Couples in relationship crisis often adopt a fingers-crossed approach to their issues.  This is playing roulette with their relationship as they are not taking any new action to resolve the issues and hoping the wheel of fortune will fall in place and the problems will miraculously vanish. So my … [Read more...]

Some problems can be fixed faster than you think

One of the issues couples in crisis have is they are unaware of real severity of their problems or what is causing them. Some problems are deeper than you think and some problems can be fixed faster than you think. I saw a couple recently who came to see me believing that their marriage was … [Read more...]