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Be the one to take action

Many of the people who come to me for help believe that they are doing 'everything right' and it's their partner who has to change.  I am even told - rather too frequently - that they are prepared to change and take action,  but only if their partner changes first! So now they have put a … [Read more...]

Be Kind to your Partner

Today I want to ask you this question: "Are you being kind to your Partner?".  I am sure when you both met you were wonderfully kind to your partner.  You loved and cherished those moments you had together; you listened to their life stories; you learnt about each other. If you are surfing my … [Read more...]

Who is most important in your relationship?

Understanding who is most important in your relationship is key to a successful one.  I know this seems obvious but believe me so many couples lose sight of this. When you both met you were each focused on making each other happy.  You listened, you learnt and you acted in their best interests to … [Read more...]

Which are you doing?

Relationships require positive action to keep them alive and passionate.  The problem most couples with relationship problems have is they don't know  which actions are positive, good ones and which are negative, bad ones. Men and women communicate in different ways and not understanding this and … [Read more...]

Men have needs too

In this day and age of equality it's become all too easy for women to decide we have to be good at everything. We don't need help - we can do it all ourselves. We can manage thank you very much!  We can open doors, carry our parcels, cope with a shopping trolley, 3 children (all screaming) and no … [Read more...]