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She had become imprisoned by her desire to give

She came to see me unhappy with her marriage, her home and what her future looked like to her.  She told me that she felt unloved, unappreciated, used and imprisoned. As we talked it became clear that she had an immense wish to give and make those around her happy.  She ran the house, doing all … [Read more...]

From tailspin to exciting future

I had the privilege of working with Mark over the last 3 months. Mark had become someone that he didn't particularly like in his attempts to rescue his marriage.  As a result his marriage had failed.  In the time he spent with me Mark has transformed his life and is now living his life as he … [Read more...]

Separation wasn’t working

They had separated 10 months earlier as life together had deteriorated to a point where both were very unhappy.  But now almost a year later the husband didn't feel any happier.  In fact he strongly believed their marriage still had a chance.  He wanted to find out where they had gone wrong and … [Read more...]

Can our Broken Marriage be Saved?

I see couples with many different problems in my sessions.  Often they come to me in a last ditch attempt to find out if their broken marriage can be saved.  Frequently they have tried other forms of counselling before giving themselves one last shot. Most have lost sight of who they are and why … [Read more...]

Don’t destroy your relationship because you’re scared

The fear most people have is "Not being enough".  This in turn leads to the biggest fear of 'Not being loved". When problems happen these deep fears are triggered. People often do the wrong thing because they're scared.  They react to their fear and so behave in ways that they wouldn't do if … [Read more...]