Protecting yourself may not be the answer

First of all let me be clear if you are in a long-term physically violent relationship - this does NOT apply to you.  If this is you then - protect yourself and get out fast. Now that is clear what do I mean by Protecting yourself and why may it not be the answer. When a relationship has … [Read more...]

Your beliefs are important

Without being completely aware of all the why, when or how, we have all created beliefs as we have grown into adults. They are important.  They form part of the structure of how we deal with life. Your beliefs are important However your partner's beliefs are equally important and valid to them … [Read more...]

Be Kind to your Partner

Today I want to ask you this question: "Are you being kind to your Partner?".  I am sure when you both met you were wonderfully kind to your partner.  You loved and cherished those moments you had together; you listened to their life stories; you learnt about each other. If you are surfing my … [Read more...]

Does Relationship Coaching Work?

I frequently get asked "Does Relationship Coaching Work?" This is a valid question for many couples seeking my help.  I wrote on this topic a few years ago and believe it is so important that I have repeated it for you today. The short answer to the question is Yes.  But that does not mean all … [Read more...]

Keys for Success

Many couples who attend my sessions do not know how to be successful in their relationship.  They don't know the keys for success. My question to you today is do you know how to make your partner happy? Key for success No 1 Judge.  The answer here is simple.  Don't.  In a moment of conflict, … [Read more...]