How do you get from pain to happiness

One of the frequent questions I get asked by couples is how do we get from pain to happiness.  What did we do to end up here? I see many couples and individuals who tell me one thing only to focus on the opposite. "I want to be closer to my partner" "I want to let go of the pain" "I want … [Read more...]

A Challenge for the New Year!

Now that the New Year is well and truly under-way I thought I would set a challenge for all those who are experiencing problems in their relationship. You see 'life' can get in the way.  Work, children, hobbies; all have an effect on how we behave and these behaviours can take over in our lives … [Read more...]

Men and Women Communicate Differently

Men and women communicate differently.  Nature and evolution designed us to do so. However recently society has dictated that we shouldn't have to! In the world of work, hobbies, etc there are not many problems.  Humans are communicators and we've learnt to communicate well.  As men and women we … [Read more...]

Is the Sexual Connection in your Relationship Right For You Both?

Many couples I see in my sessions have lost sexual connection.  Some tell me they have had no sexual connection or intimacy for years. They may have convinced themselves that sex and passion dies over time and so they shouldn't expect it to last.  If that works for both of you then that's fine.  … [Read more...]

Do you have the Courage to Question your belief about your Relationship?

It takes a great deal of courage to question your belief when you are in a relationship or marriage that is not working.  Your belief that the relationship is over and not able to be saved can drive you to leave.  But if you leave without questioning this belief then how can you know if you are … [Read more...]