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Relationship Passion Killers

No one enters into a marriage or relationship with the intention of killing it.  However time and again I see couples who are destroying their relationship.   Understanding what a passion killer is is step one to creating a better relationship. Today I am focusing on three passion killers (there … [Read more...]

She had become a nagger

A couple came to see me recently at breaking point.  She had become a nagger - and she knew she had. He had taken to either hiding in his study or going out with friends to avoid the onslaught.  Communication was becoming hostile.  Intimacy was all but dead. What neither understood was why they … [Read more...]

What does success look like for you?

For this week's post I want to focus on what success means to you. You see it can mean different things to different people.  For some it's all about being the best.  Whatever that means!  And by the way 'best' will mean different things to different people. To others it means feeling … [Read more...]

Learn to understand your emotions

One of the skills successful couples have learnt is to understand their emotions and see they are there for a reason.  They have learnt to respond positively to each other's emotions - whatever they are. Emotions are information. So what do I mean.  Well they are very useful.  Some are there … [Read more...]

Partners who add value benefit each other

So what do I mean when I say you need to add value to each other By adding to your partner's experience of life and helping them achieve their goals then you bring something to your relationship rather than take. So many couples I see have failed to create long-term goals for themselves as … [Read more...]