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Relationship success requires action

Today I want you to think about you.  You see for you to feel your relationship is a success, one way to help is to think in terms of relationship success. This may seem obvious but too many couples do the opposite.  They think in terms of relationship failure.  Their focus revolves around what is failing rather than what is succeeding. Relationship success requires action It requires you to take positive action to avoid the trap of stacking resentments.  So what do I mean by stacking … [Read more...]

Is your blueprint for life giving you what you want?

Most of us will have created our vision of how life should be.  However, problems arise when life isn't the way we believe it should be.  When it doesn't match our vision; a vision created, in some cases, many years before.  Call this a blueprint if you like. When this happens you have several choices: Fight for your Blueprint You can fight to change reality to match your vision.    If your partner is not behaving in the ways you believe they should then one way to get your blueprint vision … [Read more...]

Our relationship is now the best it’s ever been

These two lovely young people came to me in March of this year, seeking help to resolve issues in their marriage and, for at least one of them, believing nothing could be done to save their relationship. These are their words sent to me this week. Linden helped us save our marriage and make our relationship the best it's ever been. If you are reading this testimonial, you are likely in a similar place that my wife and I found ourselves in, March 2019. You are probably looking for hope … [Read more...]

I need you because I love you

I need you because I love you is a world away, in relationship terms, from I love you because I need you.  Let me explain. I need you because I love you Here the prime driver is Love.  You need and want this person in your life because of your love for them.  The feeling of love you have created within yourself when you're with them brings you joy and strength. This applies to both sexes. For men, it brings strength and protection and the knowledge that as love is the driving force they … [Read more...]

Many couples fail to understand each other

Many couples fail to understand each other's language patterns and styles and as a result, fall into a trap. Couples and individuals, who attend sessions with me, are failing to communicate in a way the other understands.  Some believe they are communicating well but are actually misinterpreting each other's requests to connect.  This disconnection is scary and one or both of you can feel isolated. By failing to understand each other you can create a belief that your relationship has … [Read more...]